Friday, 28 October 2011

Sex on Heels

Not quite the title you expected ey? Only the shoe lovers would know what sex on heels mean and men don’t take it personal but sometimes we do get more orgasms from the heels than from you.
I've always wanted a pair of louboutins and I'm currently saving up to buy one but that won’t stop me from walking into the louboutin parlour at Selfridges and dreaming away by trying on my dream shoes and getting all the shoe-garsm I can from it (I hope Selfridges don’t recognize my scheme soon and ban me from there).
That glorious feeling when you walk into a store and they just captivate your attention and you just want to slip your feet into them and when you do it’s like ‘mmmmmhn, My God these feel soo good on my legs’ then you don’t wanna take them off ever; when your feet fit perfectly with the shoes like they were made specifically for you and the cushion beneath your heel and ooh the sex appeal they give your legs when you stand tall in them and when you walk gracefully round the store in them, and the way they complement your posture, push out your bum a bit and give you that sex goddess feel *sigh* Men I dare you to beat that feeling from a shoe addict.
God bless the man that invented heels, I go with Marilyn Monroe on the fact that we do owe him a lot. I've said this before and I’ll say it again; In life you need two things, a good bed and a good pair of shoes, when you’re not in one you’re in the other. Go get your sex on heels baby, you know you want to ;)

AsToldByBondi: Sex on Heel

AsToldByBondi: Sex on Heel: Not quite the title you expected ey? Only the shoe lovers would know what sex on heels mean and men don’t take it personal but sometimes w...

Tuesday, 4 October 2011

A Woman's Worth

A woman's worth
All day long I couldn't stop singing Alicia Key's A woman's worth in my head and I got motivated to write on it. A woman's worth.... If you're reading this and you happen to a woman can you say you know your worth? Or are you settling for less? A real man can't deny a woman's worth (Alicia Keys), I couldn't have said it better. I know this particular friend who is dating the perfect definition of a douche bag who constantly feeds off her vulnerability and has brought more hurt in their short period together than in someone's lifetime (I'm only exaggerating by the way but he does treat her like shit) and it kills me more than ever that she doesn't know she deserves better or she probably does bt has has placed herself at a low worth, I can never tell. Even so, no woman should have a low self esteem, in my own eyes every woman is a superwoman, we are nurturing, loving,versatile, I mean we go through labour, we someday become mothers and employees/employers, juggling home life, our relationships and our careers; there's a reason why God gave us that role and not men. We are also awesome multi taskers, go watch " I don't know how she does it ", it's a man's world but it would mean absolutely nothing without a woman or a girl in it. If you think that wAy, you wouldn't let any man make you feel less. I also know just how desperate women are for relationships and love and it works out to our disadvantage Nd to the advantage of the boys (yup I said boys cause no man would treat a real woman like garbage) , they just feed their ego with your desperation and then leave you feeling worse about yourself. Sometimes they start out good, and then gbam! He changes, endless excuses, non stop arguing, constant lies, probably even cheating and you find yourself more unhappy in the relationship than you would have felt if you were single. Any man who values your worth would never let the flame go out but constantly be on the pursuit for your happiness. Let's face it no relationship is perfect, of course you'd fall out once in a while so don't go and walk out of the relationship when you could have fixed it and then blame innocent me and this article, i no dey oh. There's a certain quote that goes 'treat your woman right or someone else would' I might have remixed it but you get the point, bear that in mind if you feel neglected in a relationship. I'm not single because I don't have offers or people but I know my worth and I can't let some boy-turned-man overnight waltz into my life and turn it upside down for me, nope nada not in this lifetime. I do believe in fairy tales you know, I believe that there's a perfect prince charming for every girl, who do just about anything to make her happy but you know your worth? Know ur worth so you don't get less than the best and until you find a real man who knows and values your worth, you can proudly say 'I'm single, sassy and satisfied'. Triple S effect baby.