Story: Today I was speaking to my friend and I wanted to share with her something new I just learnt relating to an issue she was sharing with me.
How I explained It to her: You meet a "fish" ! The fish 🐟 introduces itself as a "Fish" and acts like a "fish". You accept them as a "fish" physically but in your head there is an expectation that the "fish" is a "chicken" 🐔 OR the "fish" is a "chicken" and it is just lying and pretending to be a "fish". You build soooo much expectations (it even becomes so unreal).
Moral: when someone/something shows you they are good/bad/amazing/sly (whatever the case), accept it and stop "hoping" they would change on your behalf (Who do you think you are? Lol). Please understand the truth of THEM/IT & the truth of YOU
But seriously: Please do not waste your time, on people/things that have really shown you that they mean no good for you.
The quote above is by Maya Angelou
By Salamatu Yusifu ❤