So I came across this quote that Karreuche posted once on her instagram, following her on and off relationship with Chris Brown and it struck a cord with me. Perhaps because I can relate but I need to ask your opinion and I'll really appreciate if you leave a comment with your thoughts on this.
"The more chances you give someone the less respect they will start to have for you. They'll begin to ignore the standards that you've set because they'll know another chance will always be given. They're not afraid to lose you because they know no matter what you won't walk away. They get comfortable with depending on your forgiveness. Never let a person get comfortable disrespecting you"
Well we all know how the story ended (or the current chapter it's at). She's back with him but it doesn't change the authenticity of the message right?
If a person has hurt you more than once and you keep taking them back, does that mean they are taking advantage of you and does it mean you're losing respect, not just from them but from yourself as well?
It's easier to judge from the outside until you find yourself caught up in a dilemma like this. And if truly, they are disrespecting you, how do you walk away? I don't trust my judgement these days, which is why I feel like I need to put this out there...